Basically, if the info that the L gave me is accurate, and the WAS is dedicated to his or her lifestyle and his or her kids (as mine is to both), then the power equation is flipped around somewhat. I am not feeling any Schadenfreude, but if she want's to leave and I hold to my legal rights based on our family and financial situation then I can survive almost intact, but the results would definitely not meet my W's expectations.
As I said, I don't want any of this, and I also don't plan on rubbing her face in it, but is comforting to know that if the process starts, it's not all roses for the WAS and pain for the LBS.
Me 42, W 39, S8, S6, S2 M 11y, A & ILYBNILWY 11/08 Walking away from a bad situation.
