however, it seems in my situation, overall, what i do or dont do doesnt really matter.
when he wanted me, which was all year, what i said or did didnt matter.
i guess now i have to play it cool, but not too cool.
its a hard situation.
in the beginning i let go, didnt call, text, email, nothing. no questions.
and it only allowed their relationship to flourish.
so i always think of that, and dont want to pull back too much.
me: 31 H:29 Son:5 m:8 years in november t:10 years first bomb: 10/06 moved home: 3/08 out again 5/08 ow bomb: 4/08, since summer 06 d filed:6/08, on hold 6/08 moved home:3/09 out again 5/09