Mindblank #4 - Can I borrow some meds?

[mindfull]

(Pay attention... God really does work in HIS own way!)

So, I go back to bed about 40 minutes later and he's asleep.

I wake up early on Sunday am, and get ready, get S9 ready for his game, and go to check my emails for the directions (it's an away game). Lo' and Behold! The game time has been changed to mid-afternoon! (YEA! I'm beat! LONG night!) So, S9 and I head downstairs to make Father's Day breakfast for Dad and the family, and we arrange his gifts on the kitchen table.

S9 brings everyone downstairs, and H looks like he's not thrilled to be awake, but tolerating the scene. We have breakfast, he opens his gifts (loves them), and he goes back upstairs to rest. A few hours later he seeks me out in the house, and asks what time we'll have to leave for S9's game and to take S12 to his soccer camp at the university. I tell him, and he tells me that he's going with, as he has no one to help him put the pier in. I just said, "Oh, good. The boys will be happy that they'll get to spend all of Father's Day with you, and we can drop S12 off for the week together."

So, we dropped it. We go to S9's game (they win!), and then to a phenomenal restaurant in the Chicago suburbs, and H is in love with the place. Tells me that we should open up one of these in our city (he's always wanted a restaurant/bar). I told him I loved it, and thought it was something to look into...

We take S12 to the university for the week, and head back home. Last night we just relaxed, watched a movie, and fell asleep. This am I got up and worked, and then made H's favorite dinner around 1pm, as he was leaving for the week for work. (I had laid out the stuff to make it yesterday, THINKING, he'd be putting in the pier and not wanting to go out!)

So, there we stand.

These little temper tantrums, then commanding me not to talk, ARE STUPID. There's obviously a reason he doesn't want the pier, and boats/waverunners in. JUST TELL ME! They used to be his MOST FAVORITE activity. He bought us a new wakeboard tower boat when we moved in a few years ago. He (in the past) has bought the newest, fastest waverunner every year. Now, he doesn't even want them in? What am I missing? Is he enjoying living in his self created misery?

HELP ME OUT HERE!