Im beginning to believe none of these men are going to Man-up and do nothing till they really know they have lost us for good! They know we love them and want them...so why should they have to hurry up and decide to come home....we're waiting for them. I know everytime my H see's me taking a step towards something besides him, he changes...

MDoodles....I know its hard...I have texted my H at all hours on some nights in the past...because I was hurting.

I even broke down today and asked something I shouldnt have, but sometimes I have to get something out in the open before I can let it pass....I basically asked him was he talking to the OW again since she and her 4th hubby have split (after only 6 months) He told me that they hardly speak at all anymore.

We do have to be forgiving, and at the same time not let them walk all over us. In the end its our decision!

I will pray for you Sanderika...I know how hard it will be for you to say that to your H....I have imagined saying the same thing to my H...I mean 3 years will be here before I know it!

I agree with you Mdoodles, I dont want to push a divorce either..I dont want to pay anything for this! Its his Party! Let him pay for it! (a good friend told me that)

Kissak

"What time I am afraid, I will trust in thee." Psalms 56:3
M-37 H-37
S-10, D-15
M- 1993
First bomb- 12/23/06
Came and went too MANY times!
Gone again 10-25-10