u are so not rambling! i love to hear what other people like me are thinking,

we think alike...

does the ow call u ever or harass u? mine has.

and i have never been anything but nice. i tell her the truth because she is being fed lies. i know she doesnt trust him. i know she pushes him and questions everything and searches his phone.

i have no clue why he even runs back to her.

he has done nothing but lie and cheat on her. nothing but plan his escape back to me. then comes and here we are again, he is gone.

u are right, they need to finish their journey.

i too, am waiting until the 11th hour. i am wrong to do so because of the finances, but for right now, im moving very slowly legally.

i dont want it and he waivers on it so much, why should i waste money on a legal situation i dont want?

i worry about my son too, he is 5. what does your son think?


me: 31
H:29
Son:5
m:8 years in november
t:10 years
first bomb: 10/06
moved home: 3/08 out again 5/08
ow bomb: 4/08, since summer 06
d filed:6/08, on hold 6/08
moved home:3/09 out again 5/09