Just wanted to quickly respond to the consensus about proceeding with plans without her. I have done this a few times with it culminating with when I took D10 to see "Little Nemo" this summer. I'm still hearing about that one as she still resents that we went without her. Have I mentioned CAW's ability to hold a grudge for what seems like forever and by her admission too.
Anyway, her POV is just because she didn't want to go at that time doesn't mean she didn't want to see movie at some other time and interpreted our going anyway as being spiteful ... and Sue, no I don't believe she sees how she disappoints other when she does this, especially D10. She actually gets angry at D10 when she starts to cry, thinking D10 is try to manipulate her into having a guilt trip! A couple of times this past summer (which I had mention in earlier threads), D10 would react with an outburst where she would yell at CAW, "I hate you!" then storm into her room. ... and my intervention would only turn CAW's scorn at me also as "ganging up on her".
Some of the dance steps I done for myself haven't worked as much as I would have liked at drawing her to the dance floor, so I'm wondering if there are still some more dance steps I can learn?
