So his boss is totally in love with his secretary? How cliche!!!
Other than him telling you about that, everything sounds very positive. You could establish a new R with him over time. If that is what you truly want, then more power to you girl! It seems as if there are parts of your life together that he truly misses...Mabel just being one aspect of that.
You are definitely not the source of his discomfort. He has created that all on his own.
You sound wonderful Julia!
T19 M15 S19 XH47 M43 bomb12/4/07 PA5/07 S12/26/07 D final 11/17/08 Back together with no defined R 05/2010 confused....to say the least!!!