KAW..another crossroad for you and CAW......I don't know what to tell you on her changing her mind...it's always ok for anyone to change their mind...but if it is everyday and especially with your d..then it is going too far...I hate to always sound so harsh with CAW...but she needs an eye opening of some sorts...does she not realize the damage to you and to d? You are an adult and can choose to tolerate this stuff, but your d has only one mom. I am sorry for feeling this anger right now...I wish I could return some great advice to you...you have set me back on the right track many times..and I feel like I am letting you down.
Do know though, that I am thinking about you and will pray for the right answer you need to handle this situation.

Sue