mdoodles, that's it - I really hope that he's just not the rebound guy. That would not be fair to him and I don't think he deserves that. That why's I took time to be alone and to gal after H left and even throughout all these yrs I had never cheated on H or considered anyone else seriously. It would not have been fair to anyone. I think sometimes though we need to move on or moreso I need to move on. I want to be happy. I want someone to call my own. This guy is really a quality person. And I really want to get to know him better. But yes, scared and I hate the fact that H has done me so much wrong that has made me so scared to move on.
And even without this guy I would be thinking the same thing right now about H - that he's full of crap. I think once I made up my mind to do the legal sep that was a turning point for me and I'm so glad I made that decision before I met this guy. H has been saying the same thing and I don't believe a word that he says. he's all games and i'm getting too old to play these games. the # of times H has told me that he's done with OW its unbelievable. I'm completely fed up now and have had enough.
