Need to really make changes for me (thread #3)

[mdoodles]

i was wondering how u were doing....i understand how u are feeling, and u know what? after 6 years, maybe u truly are realizing u are done waiting around for him.

take it very slow. i think its good u were honest with this guy, thats the best way to be and u could always be friends for a while.

think about things like this - if u didnt have this other guy around, how would u feel about your husband saying these things to u? from what i read, he always tells u he wants back...who knows, maybe he will show up with this stuff on the doorstep if he really sees himself losing u finally.

and maybe u will want him and maybe u wont.

i think u are doing well. just make sure u think things through.

sometimes a rebound guy can be a good thing. my friends tell me that just meeting someone, even as a friend, can open your eyes to what we are missing out on.

i think our odd situations somehow seem normal to us over time. and in truth, they are not. we are not living the way married people should, we are not living the way we deserve.

maybe this guy can symbolize that for you, really open your eyes.