I would agree with most, go ahead and go without CAW. Your W will look back on this in years to come and regret that she didn't do more with DD, when it's too late.
I used to tell my H you think it bothers you that I change my mind so much! Imagine how I feel, it drives me nuts on some days, too!! Back and forth, back and forth..it was kind of like torture to my brain....just trying to give you the fickle female POV.