I also met with my L on friday, and what he told me to do is completely mind boggling to me. He is suggesting I leave the house ASAP, maybe even deed the house over to her, and then convert to only giving her child support money, and let her deal with the financials of the house, her cars, utilities, etc knowing that she most likely won't be able to maintain it for long. (I don't want the house, and need to move closer to work, so that's part of the impetus for his reasoning..)
I hope you follow your L's advice. Your W has made some poor choices, and it sounds like she will have some consequences as a result. I think that's a good thing. It doesn't sound like you are trying to control her, punish her, or get revenge. Just letting the consequences for her actions occur. That's very positive in my book. Karen
