Wow! Your W is such a witch! I bet if/when Mother's Day falls on your week she would NEVER agree to trade another holiday for that. Horrible. One good thing is that hopefully when you finish the mediation stuff or at some point you'll be able to get in written form, stuff like Father's Day kids should be with you, and Mother's Day with their mom and no giving up of another holiday or whatever. Crazy!!! And why is she helping your boys decide where to take you for Father's Day. My H decides that (although he usually picks a place the kids like too), and I wouldn't think of deciding or help deciding that. I can't help thinking a year or 2 from now, you will be so much better off with her mostly out of your life!!!
I'm glad you finally were able to have a good Father's Day. That's so sweet that both your boys had meltdowns, my D9 does that too. It's a nice way to look at it, that they're having so much fun they have a hard time giving it up. (((((NC)))))