I feel for you, CAW sounds sooo like me, oh my god!! I haven't followed your switch from the beginning so not sure if she's always been like this either.
Quote: The second part is when at the last minute she changes her mind, which BTW she takes quite literally as a woman's purgative to be practiced whenever she wants.
And, this is what I would say to H after I had drive him mad by my constant mind changing. I commit to something becuase it sounds really good at the time I'm told about it so I would say yeah let go and then change my mind at the last minute, and I did this with my friends, also. It got to be a joke, you can't count on Cathy until you see at the event. You know the more I think about it, sometimes it's more like thinking out loud. I shouldn't do it, but I do. I catch myself doing it with my little guy, you know saying stuff like we should go to the zoo tomorrow or we should do this on the weekend and then I never follow through with him on things. He's not noticing at this point, I don't think. I am trying to change this so that son doesn't grow up with constant disappointment--meaning not saying anything unless I'm sure I'm going to do what I say. I know this was a huge problem with my H, also.
Oh my gosh she is soo much like me, if my friends would read this they would assume you were talking about me!! I know this doesn't help, but just wanted you to know that there are other people out there who can't follow through on thier commitments.
