Now, I happen to think your husband has been f.o.s. and completely insincere so far, but what about when he ISN'T f.o.s., and IS sincere? You're going to be "blocked" to him emotionally (and even physiologically), because of this new relationship.
Puppy
So glad you posted and sounds like you're doing good. I agree with you Puppy, but...after 6 years, I mean he's had his chance. He prob. won't be sincere until after he realizes your completely gone, but that's on him, isn't it? I mean if it had been 6 months, I would say the same thing as you Puppy.
I do think though I don't understand how you can be in love with an H and the next week be dating someone else? I think emotionally you may not be as ready as you think. Karen