My thoughts are that I wouldn't believe anything he is saying right now, LOL.
GOOD FOR YOU in:
a) being honest with him; and
b) not giving in to his affections!
Just PLEASE be careful, Vicky. I'm sure you're VERY emotionally vulnerable right now, and I'd hate to see you jump too quickly into anything, just to get hurt again. Also, just KNOW that your relationship with this new man IS going to affect to what extent you allow yourself to be open to your husband's attempts to reconcile. Now, I happen to think your husband has been f.o.s. and completely insincere so far, but what about when he ISN'T f.o.s., and IS sincere? You're going to be "blocked" to him emotionally (and even physiologically), because of this new relationship.
