See now this is where I am confused. Your saying in one sentence to just do it but in the next you are saying I would be having sex if she was emotionally connected to me. How do you persue physical contact with a woman if she is not emotionally connected to me in that way?
To persue a woman physically start going around the bases. Just like high school. I don't think anyone is saying go straight to penetration. I see snuggling and cuddling. Is there any exchange of bodily fluids? (Kissing is what I mean, but I mean kissing) What's the next physical step beyond where you are today? Or maybe you need to work on consistent hugging as the MC suggested. Until you get consistency in your physical interactions you're going to circle the drain. MHO.
