I'm saying in a sitch like you described yesterday..where you left the bed..
I'm saying aask her..for what you need..I'm not saying ask her to bed you..but if I wanted a hug I'd go give her a hug and see what happened..if I would like her to come to bed early then I'd tell her..I'm going on a trip..can you come to bed early so we can spend some time together??
and you said things were better emotionally...and i ask for who??
if you are reading her mind then good for you..has she said things are better emotionally? are you assuming, or are you talking about your emotional state..
I'm looking for clarification??
and it's true.if a woman is connected emotionally then she is putting it on me...for sure...
and I have not said to disregard your MC's advice..I thgink you need to be patient also..and clearly you were not the other night..