I think Bagheera's suggestion to read and research is an excellent idea. I have started with Divorce Remedy. I haven't read it all yet but it has already helped me SO MUCH! I was amazed how much I learned in such a small amount of time and what a difference it makes to use the strategies suggested. If you don't want to buy it, go to your local library.
Me: 39 H: 39 S: 15 M: 18 years Bomb: 6/3/09 H moved out: 10/15/09 H moved back:5/30/10