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I talked to Ken on Friday and he hit me also and helped me to see things differently. He also gave me some ideas on what I should do and how to proceed from here.



what you should do?? I don't get that sorry but I don't...that sounds like some plan to save your M?? What's up wid dat??

what you should do is "man up"....stop walking on eggshells..

if I wanted her in bed I'd ask her..if i wanted a hug I'd get it...

I'd be normal...I can imagine what it's like there now....

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The emotional connection is getting stronger and I am glad about that but I still need the physical connection.


for who?? you or her?? Are you assuming that it is for her?? Don't u think that if it was for her then something would be happening on the physical front..

what do you think WT??? you're a woman..give me your perspective here...if they are emotionally connected then I think you will be "getting it like you ought to be getting it"

fear will control you only if you let it...

I used to be afraid..especailly after the first failure..I'm not now..nor have I been with thesecond.....

Hell...I'm a survivor.. grin