Also what you said about your sister; I heard the same thing. My H said maybe I need someone like BIL to make me as happy as he makes her. Yes, they have been married for over 30 years and they act like newlyweds. But, this was after they D after 10 years. They were D not quite 2 years before he started coming around and doing little things for her. She even told me that if the D happens it might not be so bad. It would clear the air. I couldn't argue with her just by looking at them.
