Hi Julia,

Sounds like he gave up quite a bit of time to move the joint stuff (?) and also his stuff and yours to go to your sisters, so he was pretty helpful and generous. Good that you got along, but I guess it may have felt a bit flat as he was holding himself in check a little, and you felt a bit unconfident.. I used to be the same, a bit cautious, not so natural as you would a good friend, so i understand and soudns like you handled it well anyway. Its a hard thing to have had to deal with, so well done!

Al xxx


Me:40! H:37 Together: 12yrs
IDLY & left 11/07 ADs 03/08 OW 8/08
Reconciled 05/09 now married!
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