Save YOURSELF. IOW ~~~ being the best Garden Gnome you can be is your job right now. Golly, I sound like Coach But seriously, he would say that and he'd be right. This is the only thing you can control right now.
As far as your beloved is concerned - what you can do for her is quietly study her. Listen to her. Recall what she has said in recent past and consider it. Fold these things into your new reality and see what new sense it may make.
Cheers ~
From God's lips through Greek's post (and everyone else's) to my ears.
Thank you.
Gardener
"My soul, be satisfied with flowers, With fruit, with weeds even; but gather them In the one garden you may call your own." Cyrano deBergerac
But seriously, he would say that and he'd be right. This is the only thing you can control right now. 
