OMG K! He seems like he really does get where you are coming from but has NO CLUE how to reform his own thinking.

Take your time processing this. He knows what the problem is...time....energy....focus.....but he has to come to a solution. You really have done everything you can to help point him in a direction toward resolving some of this, but he has to take all the next steps.

Keep doing what you are doing K!


T19 M15 S19 XH47 M43
bomb12/4/07
PA5/07
S12/26/07
D final 11/17/08
Back together with no defined R 05/2010
confused....to say the least!!!