I'm feeling a little weird and pissed this morning though. Remember, I had the debate about asking Gabe if he wanted to spend Father's day with Marc and decided he would need to be the one to ask for that. Well, he never did. I had Marc call him this morning to tell him happy father's day and Gabe told Marc that his gf is taking him out to lunch for father's day. WTF??? He's not the father of her child. He's not anything other than her bf. Why would she do that? WEIRD! Why does make me so PO'd? I'm not sure. Maybe it's just that mother's day was so miserable. Yeah, maybe that's it.
I want to say something to him about his not wanted to spend the day with his son, but I'm NOT going to. I know it's not worth it, but it's such a strong impulse. I want to blast him for so many things he does, but there is no point to any of it. I know that, but it doesn't change the feelings that bubble up in me. GOSH! This just makes me sick.
a few things I want to comment on...imagine that!!
First off I can see whay you would be pissed that Gabe did not spend any time with Marc.....but....Gabe will make the R with Marc..and you should not get in the way of that at all..in other words...it is up to Gabe to have an R with his son...and I think it's your job to be there for Marc and support him when Gabe screws it up...that's the only reason I think you should be pissed..if you're pissed cause "ho' took Gabe out for father's day then i think your letting stuff bubble that should not bubble...Gabe is a father..if someone wants to take him out for father's day then so be it, if Gabe wants to screw up his R with his son becasue of that then so be it. for you to try and figure out why she took him out or why he went is just another cheeseless tunnel for you to run through..
