So sorry you're hurting it just life...You still care you have a child together and right now she has no father, hopefully that will change. I do think you're doing great by not just allowing him to come over whenever is good for him...Keep detaching and it will get easier...or so I've heard .
Yeah, I have heard that too! Haven't seen the easier part yet. I wish there was a way to truly go NC, but obviously not possible. Its the constant being on your guard, thinking of responses to the madness, and finding the new lies. Makes detaching tough.
Me: 46 FWS: 36 Married and Divorced 4/07, Pregnant 7/07,False R 7/07 Baby Girl born 3/08 Kicked him out because OW: 7/08 5/10 He realized what he had and lost. Moved home! REMARRIED 3/14/11!!