I hate my H

[Done in VA]

Yes - that post was to you because you were the first person to really explain it to me. Or at least try to explain it, I think it does take a lightbulb moment, bc it's a FEELING.

I would love to do coffee & don't mind driving out of my area. I am actually on vacation this week, but one day next week would be good. Maybe we could find somewhere in the Woodbridge area. Let me know!

BTW - not putting too much into this, but when H dropped me off at the airport, he walked up to me & gave me a hug. He hasn't initiated any physical touch with me since Feb! Maybe even Jan.

I think I am actually exuding the changes at this point like you talked about. I don't have to run around saying look at my changes. They are just there! But I know I still need to DO WORK.