If there is the tiniest of possibilities that she can turn around and love me again, and we can be a normal family again, I can wait until the end of time.
Welcome to the sad paradox of male-female relationships, Orich, but as long as THAT is the vibe you put off (or maybe you've actually even spoken it to her), she will actually move AWAY from you.
However, if you move away from HER -- and do it the right (read, "DB") way -- I think you will see her move TOWARD you.
Personally, I would suggest the Last Resort Technique.