((((nc))))... I can't tell you how utterly *pi**ed* i am at this woman and how fargin selfish she is.
This is NOT about HER!! Why must she constantly use those boys as leverage. Im sorry but I know in the past you have said she is a good mother, but seriously, I don't buy that anymore. As much as my H might do things to me etc. I would never ever use my boys has a pawn, of ANY kind. I haven't. I have been in situations to do just that, but I know how much they love their father and how much he loves them, and its just not right to get them wrapped up in our issues.
You are their father, case closed. This should have been a no-brainer. But to try and negotiate Halloween for Father's day is RIDICULOUS!!
Im proud of the way you handled it, but I don't know how you do it. Someone needs to put her in her place... I will volunteer!!!
You are a great father NC~ keep doing what your doing, your boys will realize later in life how hard you worked to keep things together, and will hopefully realize what she did to tear it apart.
Thinking of you!
me: 37 H: 44 Married for 18 years this june S7 S3 porn issues, and much more... since 7/06
Happiness can be found, even in the darkest of times, if one only remembers to turn on the light.
