"I know that time is my friend. Why doesn't WAW view time as her enemy?"
I dunno.. maybe because everything else is "too much". Maybe that's where she's comfortable.
Folks end up in LimboLand because the alternative is far too scary for one party or the other. Goodness knows I had to be catapulted out a circus cannon over the decayed carcass of my marriage to finally get to Divorceland.
She's thinking in ways she never imagined. Which is a good thing. It's always easier to 'fix' the other person than yourself. And imagine the shock finding it's her own face looking back in the mirror of what is truly worthwhile in life.
I don't think you're DBing anymore. It's more like Yin Yang Wa, The Art of War equivalent for relationships.
