......and another thing. The attention your W is getting from you two guys fighting over her is a drug. Just look at what happens when one of you takes that attention away. OM told her it was over and to stay away.....and it makes her chase him; now if that isn't the action of an addict then what is? learn from that GH.
You are too readily available to your W and you show her too much you care. Sara and I have been telling you that for ages and you know that it's true. Look at how jealous your W got at you having that other ladies no. in your phone. You need to go through the local directory and add a few no's......doesn't matter that you don't know the people.....just get that W of yours thinking. Don't even mention the numbers....just add them.
Stop paying her so much attention. YOU are worth so much more. And quit meeting her places and picking her up. be too busy to meet her for lunch. Stop letting your life revolve around her.
If need be contact OM and see what he thinks. Also if your W had unprotected sex with OM then make sure both you and she go get checked out. Syphallis can cause a child to be born blind if it has a vaginal delivery. Your W is a very stupid, selfish, woman.
Saffie me 46 H 46 M in 1986 D20,D18,S16,D13 H's A 01/05 to 07/06 H recommitted to M 07/06 renewed vows 09/06 Going from strength to strength