all the girlfriends you are right they are not reasdy to give up the fight they wanted life their way--fun no responsibilities ect it is ok when you are a teen--but now in youe 40's you chose to lose it all they will grow up broke and alone b/c soon the OW that will consider dating them will be bottom feeders and no one you would ever want to be with sad to say but many will never consider return mine probably wont ( dont know If I really care anymore) to return means to let go of that fantasy they had that Life could be Fun all the time?? instead of realizing life is difficult and can be fun at times peace
married 14 years H 42 bomb 2/07 IDLYA D final 3 /09 M ow D ow