all the girlfriends
you are right
they are not reasdy to give up the fight
they wanted life their way--fun
no responsibilities ect
it is ok when you are a teen--but now in youe 40's
you chose to lose it all
they will grow up broke and alone b/c soon the OW that will consider dating them will be bottom feeders and no one you would ever want to be with
sad to say
but many will never consider return
mine probably wont ( dont know If I really care anymore)
to return means to let go of that fantasy they had that Life could be Fun all the time??
instead of realizing life is difficult and can be fun at times
peace


married 14 years
H 42
bomb 2/07 IDLYA
D final 3 /09
M ow D ow