Could use some insight...long...

[volleydog]

So had a great weekend with the k's didn't get to camp Friday night due to some really bad lightning...Anyway fast forward to Sunday.

W calls in the morning to figure out the plan was for the day, we were going to out to dinner last night. I tell her I'm going to take the k's to the pool and she's welcome to come along...Well this is where it hits the fan...She starts off saying she has a lot to do and is tired...blah blah blah...Then starts going off on how she hates having to do everything by herself and basically how everything is my fault...Let her go on for about five minutes then stop her...Say I've decided dinner doesn't sound like a good idea. She says I'll be fine...I say nope not a good idea I'm not going.

About fifteen minutes later she leaves me a message on how I should go because the k's are really looking forward to it and will be hurt if I don't...so she's trying to guilt me, not a good idea. My guess is the k's knew nothing about the dinner and if they did they didn't say a word to me...So I call her back and tell her no once again, she said she's tired and has a lot to do that's not going to make for a fun dinner.

So k's and I go to the pool hang out have fun...Take them home to drop them off...W asks again about dinner, I say no AGAIN...She says well I took a nap and feel much better...

I guess she doesn't get the fact that I'm not going to be blamed for her not getting over herself.

Then the k's call last night to wish me a happy fathers day again...I know she put them up to it but she said they asked...She gets on the phone I ask her if there's anything she needs to tell me because if not I need to go, I'm watching the race...She sounds disappointed but says no so I say bye...

I'm done just chit chating with her...I realized also this weekend that pretty much anything that has to do with the kids she runs by her family first...For example my D wants to do cheerleading this fall instead of soccer, W asks what I think...Tell her if that's what she wants to do why not let her, she says yeah my mom said the same thing...