She now tells me she in fact will see a psychotherapist starting today. I'm not sure exactly what she wants to get out of it, whether or not it is for our marriage or just for her. Hopefully it is the former.
I hope it's the latter(spelling?). My H went with me to the C for a few weeks and what it all came down to was, that unless he sets HIS priorities straight, knows what he wants and what he needs, and is willing to do what it takes, we cant be together. We are in "pseudo-reconcile" mode for 8 months with very little progress, we are actually heading to the divorce, I think.
I have never posted to you before but I do try to keep up with people that "reconcile", I think it can be the hardest part of all. I agree with everybody posted to you regarding a possible EA. I think she is in the middle of it. I know you are discouraged and upset and sad. Take a step back. Dont ASSUME anything. Let things evolve. Stay strong. K
