N
I know it is hard
letting go is a process that will take time
sometimes ive felt I let go
only to go back and pick it up again
working thru it day by day
deciding what you want
deciding when is enough
We can let go totally and still leave room if H decides to really work on M
part of it is really making the decision to move on
sometimes painfully
I dont encourage D, but for me it was the beginning of finaaly letting go
going out trying to make new friends
church-prayer
therapy all helped
you will know what you need to do
for me at this time
my XH looks terrible
it is almost 2.5 years since bomb
he is on prescription
drugs,
living in debt and living with OW - 28- that we never met-
for me to take him back I would have to clearly see he is totaaly serious about Relationship
he would need to go to therapy or else I do nbot believe I could go back and then it is still questionable
hang in there
peace


married 14 years
H 42
bomb 2/07 IDLYA
D final 3 /09
M ow D ow