N I know it is hard letting go is a process that will take time sometimes ive felt I let go only to go back and pick it up again working thru it day by day deciding what you want deciding when is enough We can let go totally and still leave room if H decides to really work on M part of it is really making the decision to move on sometimes painfully I dont encourage D, but for me it was the beginning of finaaly letting go going out trying to make new friends church-prayer therapy all helped you will know what you need to do for me at this time my XH looks terrible it is almost 2.5 years since bomb he is on prescription drugs, living in debt and living with OW - 28- that we never met- for me to take him back I would have to clearly see he is totaaly serious about Relationship he would need to go to therapy or else I do nbot believe I could go back and then it is still questionable hang in there peace
married 14 years H 42 bomb 2/07 IDLYA D final 3 /09 M ow D ow