BH I DO NOT expect xh to do anything, but obviously son does. There is no talking to son about xh and I dont try. He takes his dads side and always will. All I said to xh was son was pushing me and putting his finger in my face and he needed to talk to son about respecting me since son called him for advice. xh said "do NOT take sons phone again"lol whatever. This is a joke. xh is acting just like my son. This is why he left, well one of the main reasons...so he could have peace from sons attitude,,,so now he says to US "dont bother me about it, leave me alone"....in other words he could care less what our son says to me or treats me. I dont care if we are divorced. I am the mother of his child. No MAN would ever let their children, no matter how old they are, disrespect their mother. It's just uncalled for. I dont disrespect my parents to this dad, well my mom is deceased.