Renee, I agree with everyone here in the sense that your son is a grown man, there is nothing your XH can do about any of this. I would make this VERY CLEAR TO SON...... If you are going to live here, its my rules, its what I say, if you can't or won't live by them, don't let the door hit you on the ass on the way out. I think you have to put it to him like that and stick by your guns. Don't call or talk to your XH anymore.
