Still using LRT. Having learnt to stay really calm recently has helped me hugely with this. I`m so much more relaxed, can sleep easily, am happier with the kids, and not obsessing about the M all the time.
Have recently being reading a book by Joe Vitale "Zero Limits" and, while I find a lot of it far fetched, its helped me to feel more loving in my detachment by thinking loving thoughts more often "I love you. I am sorry. Please forgive me. Thank you"
Little conversation between us though. H still angry. Questioning me when I had to go home to my parent on Saturday-then telling me to stay at home. I stayed calm though and didn`t cave in to his demands either.Stayed out all day Sunday himself. I`m still doing all the work at home.
But I`m not angry about that. I feel he really needs the space and time for himself. I got the kids to write a father`s day card for him. And last night he actually stayed in the same room as us as we watched a dvd. usually he wouldn`t want to share the same space as me so hey, that`s progress!
