I'm so glad to see things are going well for you and BF, Princess. You are one of us who has made it back from the oblivion.
Now all you have to do is rebuild and start anew!
You replied to me w/the following and on one hand I'm THRILLED for you, but on the other hand I'm a bit nervous. Here is what you wrote:
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I dont really feel the need to take it slow or be careful or any of those things either Rob, its just so ok between us, no awkwardness, no holding back, no frowns, cross words, atmospoheres, nothing! Just lots of cuddles and kisses and enjoying being together.. like a feeling of immense relief on both sides is how I would describe it.
Why does this make me nervous? Because I'm scared there may be some denial here. You also posted that you have so many questions about his involvemnet w/Helen that still bother you.
I guess that is why I'm ocncerned b/c you're saying things are back to "normal" or at least "feeling normal." Well, normal is still broken, isn't it?
I'm preaching caution here b/c BF still has miles and miles to go to clean up his own messy garage, while you did some soul searching in his absence.
I don't want to be a downer here, which is why I've put off posting this for several days now, but I'm fearful that you are so excited to be back w/him that you may be overlooking some real, definite issues that still linger.
Again, only posting b/c I care. If I'm off base, then so be it as I've been wrong many times before ...just ask my XW...and she'll lay out an entire laundry list of my being wrong, I'm sure.
I can only speculate how wonderful it must be to have him "back" after what you went through as that was/is the goal of so many of us here. However, I'm just playing a bit of the Devil's advocate here.
Like everything, I write w/the best of intentions and take what you can use and delete the rest, Princess.
