What Coach does that I really like and might help you, is that he will come to me LATER and say, "Hey, you know it all worked out stopping at your sister's and I'm glad you thought of breaking the trip up like that. One thing that would help me in future is to give me a heads up. It helps me to be a part of things with you and I like that."
So what he's doing is approaching me confidently about his impression or feeling...but not in the heat of any moment. He comes without mood. He comes without expectation.
Congrats on the triathalon!Cheers ~
Thinker, sorry to hijack, but this is Greek's most recent post and I'm trying to contact her as I would like to ask her to take a quick look at my relatively short thread and do me the kindness of giving me her take on my situation. Thanks,
We now return you to Over the Shock and GALing 5, already in progress...
Gardener
"My soul, be satisfied with flowers, With fruit, with weeds even; but gather them In the one garden you may call your own." Cyrano deBergerac