I have what I hope will be one of my last court cases with my H today; safety order, access and maintenance (he is still refusing to pay me any).He will fight very nasty.He is unrecognisable to me and my family. I have just got out of hospital and I am so debilitated, I am not sure how much more I can cope with. I am truly living in a nightmare. My D7 was extremely upset last night and I don't know what I can do. Sandi; I have posted a few responses on your thread, if you have a chance to look.......peace and snodderly, thanks for your support. I feel so alone here. I x