Wow, you do sound like you are living a vibrant, full life! Good for you. Waiting IS the hardest part, and it sounds like you have instead of worrying, taken not only the high road in all of this, but the very fun and interesting one as well. This gives me a ray of hope myself, as someone whose spouse has built such high walls around himself and I'm continuing to take it personally, even though I shouldn't. I get snatches of how life really feels from time to time, and it's getting better day by day, but it's still hard to take.

Just today I was all happy and excited to get out and work in my garden, and it was so nice to feel motivated and positive about something, it kind of took me by surprise.

Thanks for sharing your own personal adventures and thanks for reminding me of what we are all seeking...personal happiness no matter who is in our life!


Me: 36
H: 34
M: 1 yr
T: 2 yrs
D: filed by H 5/21/09, served 06/08/09, first court date for "maintenance" as well as a plea to restart Marriage Counseling and attend a Marriage workshop 8/24