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Jimbo my man I just don't know anymore.

My world is completely split in two.

On the north pole I see EVERYTHING in this crazy crisis for what it is.

On the south pole.....I am a moment away from going totally nuclear on her.

....and so the war within me continues.


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So you build your cottage on the equator.....

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Originally Posted By: trapt
Jimbo my man I just don't know anymore.

My world is completely split in two.

On the north pole I see EVERYTHING in this crazy crisis for what it is.

On the south pole.....I am a moment away from going totally nuclear on her.

....and so the war within me continues.


Since you speak of war, I will quote to you from a commentary in that little black book I showed you when I visited- the I Ching- which refers to war. (More specifically, a commentary by James Legge on Hexagram 7)

"In military operations there must be one ruling will and mind. A divided authority is sure to be a failure. But 'a retreat' is no evidence of failure in a campaign. When advance would lead to disaster, retreat is the regular course to pursue."

Your "nuclear option" would most definitely lead to disaster.


PATIENCE AND FORTITUDE CONQUER ALL THINGS.
-Ralph Waldo Emerson

DBing and MLC take their toll....Please provide exact CHANGE.
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Hi Jimbo/Trapt,

LOL. I love your thread title. Very catchy.

And with that, Jimbo, I just wanted to add to your little James Legge quote ... this one's from the Tao Te Ching:

"For this reason,
the sage has a saying:
'I take no action,
yet the people transform themselves;
I am fond of stillness,
yet the people correct themselves;
I do not interfere in affairs,
yet the people enrich themselves;
I desire not to desire,
yet the people of themselves become
simple as unhuwn longs.'"

take care,
poet

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I received a phone call from my Xmil last night. I was outside with the kids. I have no idea what she wanted. She didn't leave a message either.

I can't think of any reason why she would call, but no message left so I will most likely never know.


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So you build your cottage on the equator.....


I'm working on that. A tropical getaway would be nice.


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I have to admit, that "whole OM new daddy" thing knocked me for a loop.

I'm getting back on my feet again. Realizing it's not going to do a darn bit of good to tell her anything.


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Man, I had a great day today. We had a blast. It was my grandfather's 90th B-day too. He still works in the yard(which btw looks like a golf green. lol), Still drives, and still cooks the family meals. He rocks!

The kids and I went for a raft ride, went fishing, swimming, and played out in the yard. It was great. Could ask for a better day.


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Happy Father's Day, Trapt.

I heard the, "He's about to be their father, too (stepfather)" a couple of days ago.

He doesn't stand a chance.

I doubt your X's OM does either.


"Fear is the mind-killer" Muad'Dib
Me 53, XW 44, DD 14, DS 12
Bomb and OM 12/15/06
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No matter if stepmoms or stepdads are brought into the picture, kids know who their true parents are. No one will ever take the place of you being their dad.

Everytime I read your title I think of the Spongebob soundtrack. "Who lives in a pineapple under the sea?"











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