Yes, I have taken care of child care arrangements. They have been going to the rec center which is where they will be for the summer. They were already enrolled at the time that I let them stay home for a few hours. I pay my half of that every 2 weeks when payment is due. I have not let them stay home since that one time. They go every day regardless of the situation.
At the rec center they get to go on field trips, go swimming, watch movies, have a petting zoo come to them, etc etc. They are enjoying it.
The only thing I wonder is if my journey is now longer than what it might have been since the A is over and she has moved on to dating and I didn't handle things right from the beginning. I guess time will tell on that. In the mean time, I am focusing on me and the kids and praying.
I also reread the process of detaching.
Kevin
Me 36, W 37 M: 08/02/97 D13, D9 1st Bomb 02/08 Reconciled 04/08 2nd Bomb: 09/08 W filed for D 02/04/09 Separated 03/09 D dismissed 06/09/09 Still separated...