Thinker,

I just read further up the page and see that you work from home. And she doesn't work. So that means you are physically in the same space 24 hours a day. That is a lot, and very hard for most people to handle. I suggest that you find an office you could go to during working hours. There are some office shares available where you don't have to pay full rent, and some have a common receptionist. That way, you are not moving out, but you both get more space during the day.