Newbie - first post and ?s

[Faith2010]

Gardener- Thanks for checking in...I'm doing alright. Happy Father's day to you. Did you make it through your W's b-day ok?

S and I went to a restaurant to eat and I sat there watching all these families - interacting and looking happy. All I could think was why can't my family be like that? Why do I have a MLC H? I know, no use in focusing on the whys. Except for you guys and my sister, I know no one who has tried to weather a MLC with their spouse. 3 divorces in my office within the past 2 years (out of 11 total people in my office). Each one involved a PA. 2 in my office were the cheaters and 1 was cheated on. 2 were MLCs, the other one I don't know the sitch well enough to say. I don't really know what my point is...maybe that I wish I had someone around me who really understood what it is I am dealing with. I know I have you guys and my sister, but no one who lives near me, no one to hang with or chat with, you know what I mean?