Newcomer requesting advice

[JR09]

TD,

Thanks for replying on my thread. You can do this. I didn't know I had a lot of resiliency stored in me after 1 year of separation. It's not that it makes me stronger. It made me understand why my WAS left and what I needed to do to get myself right.

I know you don't have children. But I'm sure the pain of separation is just as tough. Remember: you WILL know when it's time to call it quits. If it's not time yet, then keep DBing. If for nothing else, you'll be a much better person, humbled and void of any anger towards your H. At least that's what 1 yr of separation has taught me: I have no anger towards my W. I applaud the fact that she was courageaous enough to remove herself from a rough situation. Now I hope she musters the same courage to trust me again.

You can do it, TD.

JR09