me too, what I was trying to say is that in the past everytime I tried to make "my stand" I ended up taking10 steps back in the relationship. Now it seem we only take 2. we are getting there. Sometimes when you force someone into something they refuse eventhough it it what they want to do just becasue you are making them make the decision. Ok if I have not confused you more.... It's like begging for sex and they when your wife says "ok" now you don't want to do it just becasue you know the only reason she is saying yes is becasue you begged her. Thanks for the fathers day wish.. if is was not for the fact that I do have a son I would not be workingso hard here.
And if I claim to be a wise man, well It surely means that I don't know
