I know exactly what you mean about being amazed at how our Hs can act. It upsets me that I have so much emotion about the whole thing and he can just move on with his life like nothing ever happened. The difference is we are dealing and coping with it and will be better off in the long run.

I am glad your friends and family see positive changes in you. Do you have plans with a friend for the day of your D?

Me:28, first M
H: 33, second M
Married: 08/08
Bomb: 10/08
H filed D and deployed: 12/08
Served: 04/09
I deploy: 07/09
Hearing date: 08/09