I hope that you are feeling a bit better today. Peace has given you very good advice. They rub us out of their lives for a period of time, but let's face it, memories do surface periodically, especially at night and special holidays.
I'm sorry he hasn't rung you since you've been in the hospital, but he's running on empty. He has nothing to give in the way of support; because truthfully, he can't even take care of himself emotionally w/all of the bouncing around w/his emotions. You are far better off if he doesn't ring you if he's an emotional mess. As for your daughter, he could work it out so that she called, but he's selfish right now.
Any news as to when you will be released? Once you are home, you will need to turn this over to God completely. The stress of trying to hold on is messing w/your body. Stress can play out in so many ways that we aren't aware of. Go to your garden...work in it... and learn to sit quietly and allow things to drop in your lap. This will happen only when you turn everything over to God. Do what you must to protect you and your daughter, but in regard to your h....he's in God's hands now.
